tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post86287532867568676..comments2024-03-11T06:27:38.308-07:00Comments on AND SEW IT GOES: Something I Need to SayTerry Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16650965451863656517noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-76578717520053022642017-03-05T08:26:07.904-08:002017-03-05T08:26:07.904-08:00Thank you for speaking up on your blog. I was dism...Thank you for speaking up on your blog. I was dismayed at the two links that you sited. I guess we are going back instead of forward. I have never been able to understand the thinking of people like that. If I come in accidental contact with someone like that I respectfully ask, " Can you help me understand why you think this? " Interesting replies--most people can't tell you why. Janet Wrighttaiqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06886533109985511462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-58771861866401683932017-02-26T09:44:19.019-08:002017-02-26T09:44:19.019-08:00[Dang it! I don't know if it went through - I&...[Dang it! I don't know if it went through - I'm trying it again through my Google acct. Sorry if it duplicates]<br />Thank you!! I've been "lurking" and reading your wonderful quilting posts for years - but I had to respond this time. I, too, went to the Portland March (2 hrs drive each way and had to use my walker) and was so encouraged by all those who came out in the cold rain! I, too, have encountered those who said they didn't see the point of walking because, basically, they were comfortable! I appreciate your words - it's sad and frightening to realize friends and acquaintances are so caught up in their comfort that they 1)can't care enough about how others are being threatened and 2) don't see how fast they could lose all these privileges! I was at the DeFazio rally in Corvallis yesterday (I live in the middle of nowhere, equidistant to the urban areas) and it was mostly gray heads... we elders know what it was like, and need to find ways to impress that on the next generations! I'm a writer ("retired" quilter - only small projects now) and my poems are now even more focused on waking people up! I have one on http://damselflypress.net/ that I'm really proud up (Starts: "I am raising my voice to shout back to the censors") - that's a good site, BTW - lots of women's voices and inspiration. <br />But again - thank you for speaking up. It is a new situation, a changed world - we need to rise to meet it. Cathy McGuirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03393289177690725145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-61372989154282694302017-02-25T08:08:13.591-08:002017-02-25T08:08:13.591-08:00Yes,I'm very dismayed...thanks for once again ...Yes,I'm very dismayed...thanks for once again expressing things so eloquently. JulieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-74589974174089083702017-02-18T06:20:37.266-08:002017-02-18T06:20:37.266-08:00I think this is my first visit here. I am 65 and ...I think this is my first visit here. I am 65 and new to quilting. I came because I saw your work on Pintrest. Imagine my surprise when I saw a post about the Marches and why women did not support them. The more I read the more tears welled and spilled. You have reached into my heart and said what I would say if I had an audience. Most that read my blog pretty much agree with my thoughts that I refrain from listing on MY blog because I just don't. It's my place to be free of #45 and the fear and anger I have everyday when a new missive is signed. I marched in the rather small gathering in South Bend Indiana...I had a voice in this Red state but I know I can't change not even one mind of anyone here...not one. What happened to the people in this country? How long will it take to rectify what has been undone in just a month.<br />Carol- Beads and Birdshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11062821517519300477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-88988820536478209032017-02-12T09:22:00.337-08:002017-02-12T09:22:00.337-08:00"Rights" are never fully won. We can bec..."Rights" are never fully won. We can become complacent and loose our hard won gains with the snap of a finger or stroke of a pen. Perhaps we elders have not instilled the need to be vigilant in our younger sisters. Ladies, your "rights" were fought for and many sacrifices made for the good of all women. Wake up, please, your rights are in danger. Thank you, Terry, for speaking out. Proud to say I marched and will again. Washington needs to know that we are awake and aware.Soniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10556966141137253089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-80392196098366040042017-02-10T15:04:34.485-08:002017-02-10T15:04:34.485-08:00Jean S. - When you see wrong being done that harms...Jean S. - When you see wrong being done that harms others do you stay quiet. When the character of the leader of the greatest free nation on earth threatens the very foundation of our democratic society do you remain silent. When those who are reporting the news are silenced are you not afraid because this mirrors the facists of Nazi Germany and the present day politics of Russia. I am scared out my wits and I say to anyone who will listen that we MUST ALL stand up for our rights and our country or soon we will have no rights and be ruled by a dictator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-37851899104879481242017-02-10T03:00:22.019-08:002017-02-10T03:00:22.019-08:00Thank you :-) I'm a bit younger than you, but...Thank you :-) I'm a bit younger than you, but I've got the same feeling about how the world changes. When I was young I was convinced it would always be getting better, but now... What really makes me sad, is that the youth today like my kids experience a time where everything seems to get worse, all over the world...Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05993618626571250631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-80770686153806191392017-02-09T18:27:58.131-08:002017-02-09T18:27:58.131-08:00You so graciously stated your position. Well-said...You so graciously stated your position. Well-said. Thank you!Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06918153566288679035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-49065112904630351722017-02-09T17:27:05.136-08:002017-02-09T17:27:05.136-08:00Terry, I've quietly followed your blog because...Terry, I've quietly followed your blog because I like your work. As a WOC, I want to thank you for standing up for those most affected by this administration.<br /><br />I've wanted to express my feelings, but still can't do so without a lot of anger. Again, thanks for support us.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11837519248529039827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-12927422005449469892017-02-09T08:50:33.247-08:002017-02-09T08:50:33.247-08:00Well said. Thank you.Well said. Thank you.marylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16422697002292248350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-80954737643003891782017-02-09T05:46:44.982-08:002017-02-09T05:46:44.982-08:00Thank you for your insightful words. I marched be...Thank you for your insightful words. I marched because I have a granddaughter. Down the road, how could I look into her eyes and say I didn't try to protect her rights.Life Scraps and Patcheshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15369832113049358654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-40252628994020988152017-02-09T03:28:31.690-08:002017-02-09T03:28:31.690-08:00I am a 65 year-old grandmother who hadn't marc...I am a 65 year-old grandmother who hadn't marched since Nixon invaded Cambodia in 1969, but I made it to the Atlanta march and yelled out my love to John Lewis, who answered me back. My daughters were stunned that I took the Marta by myself to get there, endured a downpour, was one of 63,000 who protested about a myriad of issues, including public education, the environment, women's health, bigotry. But they were beyond proud of their mother. One daughter now refers to me as her "badass mom". I use the memory of that day to get me through the almost daily assault on humanity coming out of Washington, and to remember that I am not alone.Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08532721287686146185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-62276474195831888452017-02-09T00:48:11.554-08:002017-02-09T00:48:11.554-08:00Thank you for articulating this so beautifully.
Thank you for articulating this so beautifully.<br />Miss Cranstonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05469458405451685730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-8005246933272855732017-02-08T22:56:31.226-08:002017-02-08T22:56:31.226-08:00Wow, I went and read those blogs, unreal. thank yo...Wow, I went and read those blogs, unreal. thank you for writing this post, for saying just what I totally agree with. Melody A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05170460227433576519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-28857487739854318412017-02-08T22:08:57.212-08:002017-02-08T22:08:57.212-08:00I must live in a microbubble because I haven't...I must live in a microbubble because I haven't heard, directly, any of those negative comments. Wait; I exist outside the blogosphere these days, so that's probably why. Well said, Terry, and thank you for speaking up. Revalanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15523121402264988240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-65831813032255744882017-02-08T20:26:59.652-08:002017-02-08T20:26:59.652-08:00Hear, hear! I think the formal silencing of Senato...Hear, hear! I think the formal silencing of Senator Warren is a perfect example of how far we still have to go for equality. Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08368609697402413450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-37301732277174530382017-02-08T19:23:27.263-08:002017-02-08T19:23:27.263-08:00Los Angeles marcher and prolific knitter of at lea...Los Angeles marcher and prolific knitter of at least twelve pussy hats here. There is something empowering about taking back a word that I would never use in a million years, and by labeling the pink hats "pussy hats" it reminds the president and others that we will never forget what he said, and he will forever be reminded of his despicable behavior. Proud pussy hat wearer! RESIST AND PERSISTAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14089450956117845427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-48752207699042094542017-02-08T18:32:57.649-08:002017-02-08T18:32:57.649-08:00I marched in spirit, wishing I was there but physi...I marched in spirit, wishing I was there but physically not up to it right now. Well said. I think we women who remember when it became a law to fight back against sexual harassment on the job happened. Women who remember when we were able to get credit cards in our own names. So many, many rights came about just in our life time, we need to give perspective to those who have always had 'all' their rights.Janet Hartjehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07206975876942715109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-88543938967880337602017-02-08T17:59:31.788-08:002017-02-08T17:59:31.788-08:00Well said. I always enjoy your thoughts and writin...Well said. I always enjoy your thoughts and writing. Yes, vigilance is an obligation. Thank you!Dianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00026045566930615920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-89271547567164602472017-02-08T16:03:55.949-08:002017-02-08T16:03:55.949-08:00Hey! Pussy hats made the cover of TIME! That is so...Hey! Pussy hats made the cover of TIME! That is so awesome! What isn't are those women. You are right. Full of "I" and "Me". The irony of this at the end is epic, "you protect rights at EVERY moment you get- NO MATTER who is President." (Whaaa? Picture my head twisting like a dog that hears a squeak...) Amazing and totally befuddling. I seriously don't even know where to start with people like that. It saddens me. One never wishes evil on others, but I would imagine her views might change if right here in this country her daughter gets kidnapped for a sex-ring (it does happen right here on the I-5 corridor), or gets told that a male co-worker got the promotion because she's too 'bitchy' and she should smile more, or is afraid to walk home at night due to cat calls and offers of gawd-knows-what from male bus riders on her route who get off at her stop. I guess all that is okay with that woman because...Murica? SMH <br /><br />I totally agree with your MLK quote. The flip side is that I am seriously stressed at work and if I follow all this stuff too, I'm going to have an anxiety attack or get an ulcer. Reading only one of those links was nauseating. :( Could this potentially be marketed as a dieting aid? Read the day's tweet, be unable to eat, and thus lose weight? Ugh. Leighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11563230869151812456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-25749566173223947152017-02-08T15:20:26.546-08:002017-02-08T15:20:26.546-08:00I am also "old" and am always reminded o...I am also "old" and am always reminded of the 1950's and 1960's. Being told what we could wear, what we could study, that we had to have a skirt and stockings on in order to eat in the college cafeteria. Studying art?--oh, you'll be in art education so you can be a teacher. To say we have what we need and want and don't need to march ( I hadn't read any of this) is ignorant. Your freedoms are never permanent. I thought the pink hats were tastelessly named. Made me cringe.Joanne Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01623855664379207620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-13669674912799091562017-02-08T14:46:11.339-08:002017-02-08T14:46:11.339-08:00Thank you for writing this blog. I agree with you ...Thank you for writing this blog. I agree with you wholeheartedly. We must continue to express ourselves in order to at least maintain our gains, if not continue the forward movement. Our rights seem very fragile in today's environmentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-37050598237670153412017-02-08T14:36:21.871-08:002017-02-08T14:36:21.871-08:00I am totally dismayed. Especially by the "De...I am totally dismayed. Especially by the "Dear Daughter" post. Unfortunately some younger women have no concept of how tentative progress can be, how recently these rights have been secured and the limited availability of those rights to anyone outside of the mainstream. We indeed live in challenging times... and knowing you and others of the same ilk are out there gives me courage. Thanks for sharing!Kat Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00608865758184344881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-61179911100527706682017-02-08T14:16:54.283-08:002017-02-08T14:16:54.283-08:00I just came across your blog on Quilter Blogs toda...I just came across your blog on Quilter Blogs today and I must say, THANK YOU!!! Thank you for marching. I wasn't able to participate because physically I can't. Am I privileged? Yes, without a doubt. I am a middle aged white female with a husband who has an amazing job, a great 7 year old son, a large comfortable house, great health insurance, good doctors and no worries about where my next meal is coming from or if I get pulled over by a police officer if I'll get arrested, beaten up, or worse. I don't have to worry about if my family members will be turned away at the airports. I can't have more kids, so my reproductive rights aren't in play. And why do I have all of these things? Because women like you fought for me to have them! You were part of the movement. The women who fought for the right for me to vote. The women who have taken less pay but fought for more. And it's not just women. It's minorities. It's people of faiths different than mine. It's people whose skin color is taken for the content of their character. All of these people are afraid right now. And I am afraid for them and afraid of what a lack of compassion and empathy will do to their rights. I can't imagine living in such fear. My friends of different colors, religious backgrounds, sexual orientation, economic classes - they are scared. I love them. They are my friends. They deserve to feel the safety that I feel on a daily basis. I can't march. But I can love my neighbor, I can speak kind words, I can write and call and vote!! I can donate to the causes and organizations who are fighting for the rights of everyone, not just those who look a certain way and have money. And I can be deeply grateful for women like you who have fought and continue to do so. So again, thank you. Your blog has just been added to my reader. DeeDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00008917323215114924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16634800.post-17745602344690453832017-02-08T13:46:03.174-08:002017-02-08T13:46:03.174-08:00Thank you for your thoughtful comments.
It is incu...Thank you for your thoughtful comments.<br />It is incumbent upon those of us who have received more in life to help those who have not been as fortunate. And our right to education in male dominated careers wasn't automatic, our right to borrow money in our own name for a mortgage wasn't automatic, our right to birth control information wasn't automatic. I saw all 3 of those come to pass in the 1960s...about the time I was graduating from HS and becoming a college student.<br />Everyone needs to remember that what the law and society grants can sometimes be lost. No one should ever assume they are forever safe from the tragedies of everyday life.<br /><br />I marched in Boston and was proud to be one in the crowd.<br /><br />Joanne in MassachusettsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com