Thursday, July 16, 2009

Pierced ears

I got my ears pierced when I was in college. My roommate did it. She was a nursing student and felt very confident about poking needles through human flesh. We made an event of it. Invited our friends to come and watch, made popcorn. My ears were numbed with a piece of ice, then pierced with a sewing needle that went into a piece of styrofoam that came out of the top of a bottle of Alka-Seltzer. I wore my little gold studs for several weeks and cleaned the pierces fastidiously. Both ears got infected. My face swelled up. I developed an allergy to nickel that I have to this day. But the important thing was that I had holes in my earlobes from which to hang pretty little baubles.

My friend Carla claims that she was so traumatized by my ear piercing experience that she could not bring herself to have hers pierced for another 40 years!

My mother was opposed to the idea and felt that pierced ears were an outward symbol of an inner moral decrepitude. I won't tell you what kind of women she told me had pierced ears. She was, understandably, not very sympathetic to the infections and allergy, though I think she finally accepted the idea and didn't put up too much of an argument when my sister followed suit a few years later.

Earring acquisition became a fundamental goal in my life. Sterling silver became my drug metal of choice. About 11 years ago we went to Ecuador for the first time and a trip to the open air market in Otavalo opened up new silver earring opportunities. The photo above shows some of my favorite Ecuadorean earrings in my collection.


These are my newest pair, brought to me from Ecuador by my daughter. The red that you see are Amazonian jungle seeds that are brilliant red with black spots on them. They are suspended in a clear resin and set like stones in the earrings. I think they are beautiful and so unusual. The name of the seeds is "wairura" according to the person who sold them to Emily. I have googled the word and don't find anything. Whatever they are called, I love them.

Update-the rest of the story! My sister emailed me. She was so intrigued that she did a little research about my earrings and the seeds inside. She also corrected my recollection and said that, due to being grossed out by my ear piercing experience, she waited until she was 37 years old before getting her ears pierced. I had forgotten that. I guess I had a big influence on ear piercing in my immediate circle! Anyway, she also sent along this cool photo of the seeds on the Amazonian jungle tree, listed under an alternative spelling "huayruho". Thanks Beck!

13 comments:

  1. Well Terry it wasn't your roommate's fault. I got my ears peirce by the local Eyes, Ears, Nose and Throat Doctor. You had to make an appointment, when you showed up for your appointment he made you go back downstairs to the local jewelry store, buy 18ct gold wires, come back upstairs with purchase and receipt in hand before he would do the "procedure". I still got infections and allergies to nickel. Gold is my desire, so alas I have very little in the way of an earring collection. Maybe if I had a daughter as thoughtful as Emily I'd get more, though the cats have been very good in the past in regard to nicer jewelry.

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  2. ahhh, does this ever bring back memories...i was the piercer among my friends (2nd and 1st holes) after I pierced my own! and my mother said only "tramps" painted their fingernails and toenails red. Well of course I ran out and got the reddest nail colour I could find!

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  3. I started with ear piercings in 1974. In 1976, I had another piercing in my ear, so there were 2 in one ear; my sister-in-law almost dropped her fork and said: "Two earrings in one ear??" I kept that until a few months ago, then my punk era ended.

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  4. My mother also ranted about what piercing said about one's morals, so I didn't have it done until I was fifty! Now I am addicted to French wires and posts and hesitate to count the earrings I own, lest I feel thwarted when I covet even more. If I don't wear earrings for part of every day the holes start to heal, so naturally I need many earrings to prevent that! They thrill me still.

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  5. Anonymous8:02 AM

    I held my daughter's hand when she had her ears pierced when she was 10--but didn't get my own pierced until I was 40 (my friend, Sharon, held my hand) My mother always made disparaging remarks about people who had pierced ears like "Only gypsies and your grandmother have pierced ears!" (My mom had her ears pierced before I did!) Beth

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  6. Anonymous8:07 AM

    My two best friends decided one of them would pierce the other's ears. It was the same deal--ice cubes, scrupulous cleaning, etc. The pierced one's ears got so infected--her lobes swelled up like golf balls. She too, developed an allergy to certain metals. As I recall she can only wear gold now. They were about 15 years old at the time--many MANY years ago!!

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  7. Here I am about 42 years later with my pierced ears of 2.5 years. I have to say that I am really not into them that much and I still get grossed out when of think of your ear piercing.

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  8. haha I can see other parents had the same issues. Mine was from my FATHER. He said " if you think I am going to pay someone to add two holes to your head you have another think coming". He also thought only loose women wore those kind of earrings. My sister and I went to my diet doctor when we were just over 18 and paid for it ourselves although honestly I don't think he charged us. Dad never made a comment as long as we paid for it. I think largely he chose his battles.
    LOVE my bird thanks!
    Ruth

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  9. How interesting - my mother had the same views on women with pierced ears, along with other judgements such as "Only common women wear white shoes with dark stockings or shoes with bare legs". I thought it was peculiarly Scottish but it must have been a generation thing. Thanks for the memories, Terry!

    PS I love my pierced ears but I couldn't face having any other bits of my anatomy done!

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  10. I am now the judgemental mother of an 18 year old, but not about her piered ears...it's her tatoos. She has two! They are in discreet places and are actually small, but UGH!!! I can't stand them. I told her some people call them tramp stamps, but she only rolled her eyes. Just like I did when my mom told me my skirts were too short and my bangs were too long.

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  11. Beautiful silver earrings! My mother made me go to a surgeon to get my ears pierced. I've never had any problems, so maybe it was worth it. Who knows? It's still fun to shop for earrings.

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  12. Those seed kind of look like ladybugs. All your earrings are beautiful. I have two piercings in each ear. The first set was probably done at the mall. One of the second set was done by my sister with the ice cube, etc. I can't remember that last one. I might have done that myself. Anyway, I had problems of sensitivity to the cheap earrings, but not the silver or gold. I prefer silver and I have a whole cabinet that I built to hold all my earrings. Over the years, my tastes have changed. In high school and college I wore big earrings to go with the big hair. But now I prefer to be a little more subdued, so look for smaller things.

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  13. Anonymous10:55 AM

    Well, many ladies over 40 and 50 have gotten their doubles put in, in each ear, after years without them.

    F

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